SEARCHING HAPPINESS TO COMBAT UNHAPPINESS.
Part 1 was introduction of happiness and unhappiness and no-1!was few examples what cause happiness and unhappiness.
Now d res-
3:– YOUR HEALTH:-
As long as you are enjoying good health you are very happy. Any ailment however trivial reduces something of your happiness, unfortunately when number of ailments increases you become very unhappy.
4:- YOUR HEALTHY BANK BALANCE:-
It may not be in billions but sufficient to provide comforts & thete should be sufficient spare for recreation like going out , few days holiday e.t. That gives u happiness , but when u buy ur happiness by credit card with not enough cash there & ur capability is much less than ur payment , then u r very unhappy, because it lowers you in your own eyes.
5:– YOUR OWN HOUSE:-
having a rented house can never give u the comfort, security of a home which u have always imagined like a garden place to sit & enjoy a cup of coffee .well till u possess that u r not unhappy & when u have ur own house you are very happy appi.
YOUR DREAM. HOUSE OF HAPPINESS.
6:– AND UNDERSTANDING COMPANION :-
be he/she ur girlfriend/ boyfriend or ur spouse. Well if the issues & misunderstanding are too much u happiness goes to six but in other hand if he/she is good ur happiness is forever
7:–CULTIVATE A HOBBY
If you are creative by nature start painting , writing, reading & hobbies like playing games e.t.c.
8:- MEDITATION, TASKS.
You should give 20 MTS for early morning meditation to clean your unhappiness & 20 mts time to asses your tasks for the whole day.
9:- DON’T LOOKS YOUR TEMPER.
even if the other person is rude just move on & forgive him/ her.
Happiness or unhappiness is the is state of your mind & there ii little difference between them it just like true and untrue there is a difference of 4 inches ( distance between ur eye & ear)
SO HAPPINESS AND UNHAPPINESS IS THE PRESENCE OF YOUR MIND.
PART — 1
HAPPINESS or UNHAPPINESS is state of ur mind as there is hardly any difference, just as there is a difference of just 4 inches between truth and untruth ( distance between eye & ear).
HAPPINESS is presence & peace of mind. One can be very happy by doing small & petty things, others may be unhappy even after moving a mountain.
Realistic and intelligent response of happiness of life lies in your heart & mind.
Just find out your meaning, your roll & your goal of your life, then devote some time to achieve them because that is your ultimate happiness.
Buddha is ultimate Happiness go to Him.
Well, what is the cause of being Happy or unhappy. I will narrate few examples.
1- Attachments:- When a child is born parents are happy , then when he|she goes to school & do well parents are very happy, but onces they start comparing with other intelligent children they are unhappy. Once their child is doing well in job they are happy but if love or attachment is stolen by his/ her sweet heart or spouse , they are very unhappy.
Example- a Jewish women died & she wanted to see Mother Mary and when brought to Mary she asked ” You must be the happiest mother of world because your son Jesus Christ is being worshipped by millions”? Mother Mary answered” What’s no; I always wanted Him to become a doctor”
Jesus Christ is watching you.Pray for Him.
Even the father of lord Buddha was unhappy because he wanted his son to become emperor but he chose to be a bagger, a Sanyasi(saint).
SO REMEMBER YOUR CHILD DON’T BELONG TO YOU.
To be continued. to part 2
A book in India’s prestigious Delhi University’s history curriculum call ” Shaheed Bhagat Singh, Chandra Shekher Azad, Surya Sen and others as ” Revolutionary Terrorists” in chapter 20 of the book titled “India’s Struggle For Independence”, written by historian ‘ Bipin Chandra & Mridula Mukherjee’.
1– Who is to be blamed for this controversial book at Delhi university, who wants to tarnish the image of Indian freedom fighters glory & how it was allowed to be in the curriculum of history department of Delhi university.
2–Will d book not create a turmoil in Delhi as well as whole India, causing protest march’s followed by Death at many States.
3– Vice Chancellor of Delhi university & Head of History department should be blamed & punished for this conspiracy to disturb peace & law in order of Delhi university & India.
4– why not an action strong enough had been taken against d writers , so in future they dare not to play with Indian Independence.
5– A high level inquiry should be set up by CBI to find out the a relationship between Vice Chancellor of Delhi university and J&K Muslim fundamentalists, Pakistan & UK to disturb the Indian unity & lower down the image of India in world.
6– Why PM Modi , Supreme court & Congress leaders are silent till now.
Are we waiting a incident to happen again as. like by present of Dehli university Kanhya Kumar
Once upon a time India (Hindustan) was a Hindu nation spread over from Kabul to Burma now called Myanmar & Indian culture was famous all over d world for their moral issues, tolerance, pardoning, nonviolence , keeping said promises & no doubt the braveness.
The culture of India was recognized & appreciated by even in 326 BCE Alexander the great who left India after concurring d Indian king Porus “”Battle of Jhelum River” who replied when defeated & chained by Alexander “as one king treats with another king” when asked by Alexander ” How I should treat treat you Porous” “.
Became of our tolerance & Indian culture of keeping the promises, India who had world’s largest gold & jewels, she was raided & looted by many cunning Mugal kings and at the end by Britishers, example of that loot is our precious, rare biggest in world Kohinoor diamond in the crown of Queen Elizabeth Victoria. This is how India a “Sone ki chidiya (golden bird) “became a poor country.
All Muslim & English kings made us their slaves, raped our women & converted we Hindus into Islam or Christianity. That how India a Hindu nation became multi religion country.
Because of our simplicity we were deceived by cunning Mohammed Ali Jinnah after India’s Independence and Mahatma Gandhi had no option but to divide India & Pakistan took birth.
At the time of Independence India was a very poor country.
But I can say with pride that India is d biggest Democratic country in world with biggest population & biggest Army, due to our hard work.
We, Indians are no more stupid , innocent, emotional & simple people under the leadership of our PM Modi. I can claim that India is no more a poor country .
India has given best IT & CEO to many countries in word. Our women force is educated & employed all over india & world.
India’s Economy is growing with biggest speed in world & days are not far when we will beat China, a biggest giant in Asia.
Lot of foreign companys are shifting to India became of largest youth powar.
Inspire of being looted we treat our guest as God.
Great US President Barack Obama has said that he could not understand d aftermath of ousting of
Libyan dictator Muamammar Gaddfi during 2011 was the worst mistake of his Presidency.
Because after the former President of Libya was killed,Libya plunged into chaos with formation of two rival Parliaments and Governments.
Well it was a great mistake by Obama’s misjudgment .
This mistake created Islamic State , which latter carried out attracts on America & its supporters .
Obama said this in Atlantic magazine last month & he also blamed France & UK both.
In my opinion what IS is today is because of air
strikes by Obama’s mistake.
But thanks to Russian President Putin & France who did not agree to Obama & remained bombing air strikes .The result is that IS is in great mess.
I request all nations to not let them rebuilt & finish them for ever.
Who says past should be forgotten, to me my past memories are my strength. Yes, past should be kept in mind to build your strong future. One who tries to reach the highest peak, can only reach there if he/she remembers his/her past memories of failures & determinations.
But, if memories are beautiful & pleasurable they does not go out of your mind &heart , it gives you happiness and sooth & relex ur mind to remove your days tiredness. For example ur never ending love for some one, ur growing children ur passion for work, ur liking for an old song, ur unforgettable line of a best look & so on. Such past memories are mirror of ur mind & heart, they are never ending.
Such memories are your strength to work harder & harder to reach your goal.
Other past memories which are painful for u , and u do’nt want to remember them should be given a about turn from ur mind & heart as to go to d dustbin.
Well, it is hard to do, and if you r that sensitive & sentimental then again give them a about turn & make them as ur past failures to learn a lession for ur better today.
Some individual’s who has sound mind &positive attitude make them their their strength to fight for future .
Well; It’s how you take ur good or bad memories in ur mind & heart.
Faith is a believe, and believe is a God.
You will be surprised to know that you can be anybody’s God, if that somebody have faith in God. I’m a Consultant Physician & i come across every day my patients saying me ” doctor is a god, please save me this time only, I will stop smoking or I will stop drinking alcohol from today onwards.” But once they are cure, i know they will never stop drinking & smoking, but their faith in me cures them.
You will understand The ‘Faith’ better with this story .
A group of 15 indian soldiers led by a Major were ordered to relieve, another group of waiting wounded soldiers by terrorists in Jammu Kashmir snow bound post of Himalayas.
It was a very cold night & snowfall started but they remained marching in a hilly route , as they were yet to cover another 5 km before 3hrs.
Every body was tired & wanted if some one could offer them a hot cup of tea.
After marching for some distance a soldier saw a dilapidated structure which looked like a tea shop but it was locked, the officer said no luck boys, no cup of hot tea.so he ordered to stop a while at tea shop to rest.
But still long way to go, a soldier gave a idea to Major ” sir if we break d lock we will get every thing needed to make tea.
Everybody starred at him & knew that officer will give him punishment for a theft but officer was also very tired & need a cup of tea very badly, so he said ” OK break the lock”.
Sure enough there was everything needed for making tea. So all of them had tea & Biscuits .Oh: what a relief, time was short so they were about to close d gate of tea shop when Major said ” Stop & he took out 1000 rupee note from his pocket & kept it under sugar container so the owner could see it.
Then they remained fighting with Pakistani terrorist till they cleared the whole area..They remained there for one month before another troops replaced them.
Now all soldiers with same Major were returning to their parent unit. They saw same tea shop in route and it was open . A Muslim old man as owner was also sitting there. So they stopped and the officer ordered a cup of tea for everyone they were very happy as no one was killed or injured in operation.
While they were having tea Major ask old man about his family and the old man had lot of stories, that God is great & his faith in God.
Major said if God is there then why he is keeping you in such poverty.
He got annoyed and told ” Sahib(sir) I can proof that God is there. He said his son was wounded by Pakistani terrorist,one month ago, he kept lying & no one came to help him due to fear of annoying the terrorist.
He look his son to hospital . Thanks to God he was alive but the surgeon gave me a list of medicines which I couldn’t purchased as I had no money and then I preyed to God to help me. I came to this tea shop to sell all my items in it. But “Sahib believe me that night God came to my shop , eat Biscuits , had 15 cups of tea & kept Rs 1000/- note under this sugar pot.”
God is there & my son is now absolutely fit.I have great Faith in Him.
Soldiers were about to speak then Major indicated them to keep quite. He paid the bill and hugged the old man with moisture in his eyes and said” Yes Baba, He is there who has faith in Him and yes tea was very good.
On the way Major told to soldiers that if he had totd old man that he kept that 1000 rupee note, his such a strong faith in God would have not believed me.
Yes: The faith is U, Can be God to anyone.
( This is a true story narrated by a soldier in Kupwara Sector of J&K.)